Are you perfect?

I recently finished reading an awesome book by John Maxwell "The 360 Degree Leader". I could blog to you all day about the awesome ideas John has but I think you would get more out of it by reading the book for yourself.

But I would like to cover one topic that I think is key to being a effective influential leader.

BE REAL...

Enough said right. You would think so. But many people have this flaw including myself at one time or another.

So lets take a few moments and clarify what it means to BE REAL.

Lets start by admitting your faults. A lot of leaders have a simple issue with this one. They believe that they have to be all knowing and never show any weakness. Problem is that they are fooling themselves if they think the team doesn't know about their short comings. This isn't about being weak this about admitting your flaws so your team sees you as an authentic (real) person. In doing this you will become approachable and trustworthy in their eyes

Next Stop worrying about what others think of you, You need to live your life for yourself and GOD. You will have more people unhappy with you by pretending to be someone you aren't then if you JUST BE YOURSELF. Present the Christ like person you are and you will be happy with yourself and that is what really matters.

Next be willing to learn from others, try to approach each person you meet with the attitude that they have something of value to give you. If you can open your mind and heart to the people around you and let them ADD VALUE to you, you will become more approachable and trust worthy in their eyes. By doing this you have created a connection with them and in turn add value to them.

Last but not least, Do not be Prideful. Influence is not about knowledge and titles. You can not gain a true leadership relationship with someone by impressing them. Being the center of attention will not get you very far with your team. Instead try focusing on the needs of others, lead through service and place their needs before yours.

In others words don't pretend to be perfect, because we are not.

in gods love